Deciding to pursue a divorce is a significant decision. Once that decision has been made, thoughtful preparation can help you approach the process with greater organization and clarity. Taking time to gather information, secure important accounts, and understand your financial circumstances can put you in a better position as your case moves forward.
Eight Important Steps Before and During Divorce
1. Build a support system.
Divorce can be emotionally difficult. Identify trusted family members and friends who can provide support throughout the process. Having people you can rely on can make it easier to manage the challenges that arise.
2. Gather financial and property documents.
Begin collecting documentation concerning the family’s assets and debts. This may include mortgage statements, vehicle titles, bank and credit union statements, retirement and brokerage account statements, loan applications, credit card bills, insurance policies, and tax returns. Keeping electronic copies in a secure location can make these documents easier to access when needed.
3. Organize household and family accounts.
Make sure you know which companies provide essential household services, including utilities, cable or satellite services, landscaping, childcare, and other services your family regularly uses. Also identify how these bills are paid. Information concerning health insurance, phones, subscription accounts, and similar family accounts may also become important.
4. Consider how expenses will be paid.
Divorce involves ordinary living expenses as well as expenses associated with the legal process. Understanding your available financial resources before those expenses arise can help you avoid making decisions simply because funds have become limited.
5. Secure important information.
Make sure you can independently access important documents and accounts. Consider whether your mailing address, online accounts, and passwords need to be updated. Electronic document storage can be useful, but only if your accounts are properly secured.
6. Use social media carefully.
Social media can become relevant in divorce cases. Avoid posting negative material about your spouse, and never attempt to access your spouse’s social media, email, or other accounts without authorization. In most cases, it’s recommended to avoid posting on social media entirely during the pendency of your case.
7. Gather your children’s records.
If children are involved, obtain copies of important records concerning their education, healthcare, extracurricular activities, and other relevant matters. Having this information organized can be helpful when child-related issues arise.
8. Keep an organized record of important events.
Divorce cases can involve a substantial amount of information over an extended period. Keep an accurate record of significant events, conversations, questions for your attorney, and other matters relevant to your case. Keep those records private and secure, and discuss with your attorney how they should be maintained.
Preparation Matters
A divorce can feel overwhelming, but preparation can make the process more manageable. Organizing financial information, securing accounts, gathering children’s records, and maintaining accurate records can help you and your attorney better understand the issues in your case and prepare accordingly.
For individuals considering divorce in Oakland County, careful preparation is an important first step toward navigating the process with greater confidence and organization.
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