In today’s hyper-connected world, communication is instantaneous, but often impulsive. In Oakland County, Michigan, families and individuals find themselves locked in legal conflict fueled by the very tools meant to connect us. Digital communication frequently worsens high-conflict divorce and custody cases. Texts, emails, and even social media posts often escalate misunderstandings into full-blown legal disputes.
When Screens Replace Face-to-Face Communication
A common issue we see is when people start typing instead of talking. Emails and texts fly back and forth with accusations, demands, and passive-aggressive remarks. Words on a screen create misinterpretations and resentment. Soon, your inbox becomes a war zone.
Why Digital Communication Can Be Dangerous in Legal Disputes
We often remind clients across Oakland County, from Bloomfield Hills to Oxford, that digital communications, such as text messages and emails, are admissible evidence in Michigan. That angry midnight email? It could become Exhibit A in a custody trial. A single text sent in frustration can have long-lasting legal consequences.
Pause Before You Send
If you’re in conflict, whether it’s with a co-parent in Royal Oak or an ex-spouse in West Bloomfield, or a mutual friend, ask yourself:
- Would I say this to the person’s face?
- Would I want this read aloud in court?
- Am I helping resolve this, or escalating it?
If the answer gives you pause, it might be time to hit the pause button and talk to your family law attorney in Oakland County.
Here are three questions to ask yourself that many of our clients find helpful.
- Is this something that needs to be said?
- Is this something that needs to be said to this particular person?
- Is this something that needs to be said to this particular person right now?
And if the digital damage is already done, it’s not too late. The best divorce attorneys usually can offer suggestions to help mitigate the damage and create legally sound solutions. We frequently say if it can’t be good, maybe it doesn’t have to be bad. Damage control can help.
At The Kronzek Firm, our top rated family law attorneys can help you navigate complex issues such as:
- Divorces and legal separations
- Support orders
- Establishing child custody arrangements and modifications
- Enforcement of court orders
📞 Our attorneys have assisted thousands of Michigan clients for over 30 years. You can reach our Oakland County office in Farmington Hills 24/7 by calling (248) 479-6200. We offer virtual meetings and in-person meetings after hours and on weekends by appointment.