Deciding to file for divorce is difficult and stressful. For both spouses, especially those with children or complex financial situations, the outcome can have long-lasting effects. Before filing with the family court, it’s important to prepare yourself so that you can navigate the divorce process effectively. There are four things that you should think about when preparing to file for divorce to help you navigate the process thoughtfully and strategically.
1. Prioritize Your Children
If you have children, their well-being should be the most important factor in your divorce. The Friend of the Court and your divorce judge in the family court will place their highest priority on your children. Avoid exposing them to conflict or involving them in the divorce proceedings. You should focus on creating a stable and supportive environment for them during and after the divorce. Divorce is a significant change in a child’s life, and it is essential to make the transition as smooth as possible for them. Start thinking about what kind of parenting schedule would work best, and consider discussing it with the other parent to develop a stable and long-lasting plan that prioritizes your children’s needs. Your divorce attorney should work with you to help both parents focus on Michigan’s best interest of the child factors.
2. Organize Your Assets and Debts
The next thing you should think about is what assets and debts you have in your own name and jointly with your spouse. Michigan courts require that financial disclosures for both parties be exchanged during divorce proceedings. The disclosure begins early in the divorce process since both spouses are required to complete the Verified Financial Information Form (form CC320). Begin gathering two to three years of important documents: pay stubs, bank statements, loan balances, credit card statements, car titles, property deeds, tax returns, retirement account summaries, and other such records. Having a complete and accurate portfolio of your debts and assets will help divide property equitably and work out support issues quickly.
Completing this task early allows your divorce attorney to work more efficiently, which can save you time and money later on.
3. Educate Yourself About the Divorce Process
Knowledge is power. Understanding the general steps and requirements will help you have more constructive discussions with your family law lawyer. Michigan is a no-fault divorce state. This means that the only grounds for divorce are “there has been a breakdown of the marriage relationship to the extent that the objects of matrimony have been destroyed and there remains no reasonable likelihood that the marriage can be preserved.” Issues of fault can be considered by a judge when determining spousal support and property division but that is at the option of the family court judge. Frankly, here in Oakland County and all over Metro Detroit, many judges disregard allegations of fault.
4. Protect Sentimental and Valuable Items
It’s wise to take an inventory of your possessions that may be valuable, such as heirlooms, jewelry, collectibles, or electronics. Take photographs and videos of them. If you believe you should have these items instead of your spouse, ask your attorney about the best way to handle that issue when looking at property division.
Divorce is complex, but thorough preparation can lead to an easier process and a more favorable outcome. Take time to assess your situation and contact an experienced divorce attorney who understands your rights and responsibilities.
If you’re considering divorce in Southeast Michigan, the Kronzek Firm can help you understand your options. Our family law attorneys have more than 30 years experience in all Michigan divorce issues, including
- Divorce
- Legal separation
- Establishing child custody arrangements and modifications
- Property division
- Alimony
We are available to assist clients in Oakland County, Macomb County, Livingston County, and throughout southeast Michigan.
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[Disclaimer: This content is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Consult an experienced family law attorney for personalized guidance.]